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<rss version="2.0"><channel><description>“Dear Old Love” is short notes to people we’ve loved (or at least liked). Requited or unrequited. 

The ex-husband in Grace Paley’s short story “Wants” says to his ex-wife, “I attribute the dissolution of our marriage to the fact that you never invited the Bertrams to dinner.”  If you’re bitter, that’s the way to express it here.

Please email pithy, specific “Dear Old Love” notes to dearoldlove(at)gmail.com. Posted submissions will be anonymous, and all submissions will be held in confidence. I won’t sell or give away your email. If privacy is a concern, use an account with a pseudonym.  

By emailing me, you’re granting a permanent, royalty-free license to edit and use your “Dear Old Love” note in any way. Your note will remain anonymous. Dear Old Love will be published in book form by Workman in the fall of ‘09. My name is Andy Selsberg. Thanks. Enjoy.</description><title>Dear Old Love</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @dearoldlove)</generator><link>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/</link><item><title>Now You Know</title><description>&lt;p&gt;Remember how you didn’t return my feelings?  She’s you, you’re me.  At least now you know how it feels.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/251880319</link><guid>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/251880319</guid><pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:47:49 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Hair Me Out</title><description>&lt;p&gt;You liked how I cut your hair, while you loved nothing more than wrapping mine around your fingers.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/251871222</link><guid>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/251871222</guid><pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:32:48 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Tears of a Mom</title><description>&lt;p&gt;Today I watched my mother cry over how badly you hurt me. Now I can hate you.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/251862584</link><guid>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/251862584</guid><pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:17:50 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Snowed In</title><description>&lt;p&gt;We walked around for hours during that historic snow day when I knew I loved you but couldn’t say it.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/251853802</link><guid>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/251853802</guid><pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 08:02:08 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>The Love Defense</title><description>&lt;p&gt;It’s not trashy when you’re in love.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/251411464</link><guid>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/251411464</guid><pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 21:35:11 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Dwelling in Possibility</title><description>&lt;p&gt;I fell so in love with your potential that I couldn’t see that you would never live up to it.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/251411312</link><guid>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/251411312</guid><pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 21:35:01 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Negotiating Fog</title><description>&lt;p&gt;Li-Young Lee is &lt;a href="http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/the-city-in-which-i-loved-you/" target="_blank"&gt;right&lt;/a&gt;: I moved thousands of miles away only to continue looking for you around every corner, hungry for some trace of you.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/251411074</link><guid>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/251411074</guid><pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 21:34:46 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>It's the Cuteness, Idiot</title><description>&lt;p&gt;You were an idiot, but cute.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/251410951</link><guid>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/251410951</guid><pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 21:34:40 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Beautiful Music Together</title><description>&lt;p&gt;Wish I’d been your guitar, instead of your girl.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/250930490</link><guid>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/250930490</guid><pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 11:43:28 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Wild Thing</title><description>&lt;p&gt;I wonder who went to see &lt;i&gt;Where the Wild Things Are&lt;/i&gt; with you. I hope you went by yourself.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/250926379</link><guid>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/250926379</guid><pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 11:37:58 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Lyrically Speaking</title><description>&lt;p&gt;I wish I were still in Cher’s “Strong Enough” phase of our breakup, and not onto Lady Antebellum’s “Need You Now” one.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/250800015</link><guid>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/250800015</guid><pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 08:47:49 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Down and Hurting</title><description>&lt;p&gt;You let me down, you hurt me.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/250790178</link><guid>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/250790178</guid><pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 08:32:49 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>My Kingdom for a Boot</title><description>&lt;p&gt;I gave you food to eat, a bed to sleep in, a body to hold, and a heart to carry. You gave me the boot.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/250780517</link><guid>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/250780517</guid><pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 08:17:49 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>The Flirty Yes's Have It</title><description>&lt;p&gt;When I asked you if you liked me, you said, “I enjoy our time.” All I wanted was a flirty yes.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/250770081</link><guid>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/250770081</guid><pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 08:02:07 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Rolling, Rolling</title><description>&lt;p&gt;I miss rolling around in bed with you for hours. And you tickling me. I wish I could go back.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/250450512</link><guid>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/250450512</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 23:48:39 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>No Sleep Til</title><description>&lt;p&gt;I dream of you nightly. I think I’ll stop with the sleeping pills; insomnia is preferable.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/250448959</link><guid>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/250448959</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 23:47:04 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Quiet Comfort</title><description>&lt;p&gt;Ours was not the longest relationship I’ve ever had, or most intense, or purest, or even the most passionate, but there was something in the quiet comfort I felt around you.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/249707407</link><guid>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/249707407</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 10:21:11 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Exemplary</title><description>&lt;p&gt;I use you as an example of who not to date.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/249638463</link><guid>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/249638463</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 08:47:49 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Not Teaching for America</title><description>&lt;p&gt;Teach for America’s rejection didn’t hurt as much as yours did.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/249628120</link><guid>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/249628120</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 08:32:48 -0500</pubDate></item><item><title>Visual Cue</title><description>&lt;p&gt;If we ever see each other again, maybe this time I’ll know you want to kiss me when you look at me like that.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/249617800</link><guid>http://dearoldlove.tumblr.com/post/249617800</guid><pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 08:17:49 -0500</pubDate></item></channel></rss>
